It can be difficult meeting someone new, especially when that person could help you with growing your business. Although it’s difficult, that does not mean it is impossible. You can do this and make it successful. You may just have to put yourself in the right frame of mind.
When you meet someone new, you don’t have to give the impression you are something you are not. The reason you are in business is because you are intelligent, creative, and resourceful. You have ideas and you have implemented them. All of these traits make you a powerful person that can do amazing things in the future. Believe in that because that’s what will help you bring out the best in you.
What if you believe others are better than you?
You know, there are some people who have done more, and do have bigger ideas. That doesn’t mean they are better than you. It just means that they have the skills and knowledge that you probably need. Don’t look to other people as a threat. They are not a threat to you. They are opportunities for you.
Often times, when people start to have a different perspective about a situation, they are better able to work with it. When you see people as opportunities rather than threats, you see them as a positive, and that can make you feel empowered. It makes you feel hopeful of moving forward with your business.
Take a moment to think about a situation like this… What does it feel like inside? Do you feel weak and want to shy away? Probably not if you’re looking at it as an opportunity. You probably feel uplifted, excited and energized.
So now, you have two perspectives to keep in mind that will directly influence the way you feel and act. You will remember that you have a lot of skill and knowledge, and you see others with skills and knowledge that don’t go against you, but could work alongside of you to create something bigger and better than you already have going for you right now.
Try writing some notes down about this right now. Before you go to your next networking meeting, take out the notes to review. Believe what you’ve written down about yourself and other people, and feel your inner self become stronger and more excited. When you do feel this, you can move on to the meeting with confidence and acceptance of yourself and in the amazing things you can do.
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